I got “the call” again today.
“The call” my own little name for the phone call I get from a family
member to inform me that Dad has yet again wound up in the hospital. As
I’ve probably mentioned dozens of times before in this blog, the
“perfect storm” of diabetes, a heart condition and lowered immunity
because of the anti-rejection drugs he has to take for his kidney
transplant means that keeping Dad’s health in balance is like trying to
keep a marble on balanced on the head of a pin by blowing at it from
all sides.
Long story short: last night, after we had our regular Sunday family
meal (a special treat this time: lunch at Dynasty for dim sum), Dad
didn’t feel like eating dinner. This morning, he took a turn for the
worse and got taken to the hospital, where he had some kind of cardiac
attack. Luckily — it feels strange to use the word “luckily” in this
context — he just happened to be in the right place at the right time.
The appropriate measures were taken, and Dad spent the afternoon
sleeping peacefully.
He woke up at about 5:30 this afternoon and saw me by his bedside.
“So,” he asked immediately after coming to, “Is the wedding still on? You can’t back out now that your mother has bought her dress.”
(That’s his favourite joke; he says it every time he sees me.)
Daaaaaaaaaad!
I thought I’d send out a special thanks to both the staff at St. Joseph’s Health Centre for being such top-flight and nice people and to Boss Ross, CEO Elliot
and the Tucows human resources staff for understanding that I’ve got to
blaze out of the office and into the hospital every now and again.
7 replies on “"The Call", Again”
I sincerely hope your Dad gets better, Joey. I lost my Dad two months ago due to a sudden heart attack; it’s rough. Spend as much time with your Father as you can; I don’t mean to sound grim, I wish your Dad a long, long life…I guess what I’m saying is, do things with him now instead of living with regret later is the big lesson I’ve learned.
-Dan, The Internet Slacker
Hey Joey,
I’m glad to see that you’re staying positive. I hope that your dad is back in action soon!
Don’t you worry about that. There’s no better son than Joey.
Never mind a dress, try food, drink, flowers, gown, band, hall, invitations, (not to mention a dress), etc. Tell dad that I am super happy he is feeling better and that I expect and plan for him to be right there as we celebrate the joining of our families. Enough of these adventures.
bnk
As always, you and your dad are in my thoughts.
Well, I don’t have a dress yet, but, if it will help keep your dad out of the hospital, I’ll get one tomorrow.
Love to all,
MFK
Well, I don’t have a dress yet, but, if it will help keep your dad out of the hospital, I’ll get one tomorrow.
Love to all,
MFK