The Adventures of Accordion Guy in the 21st Century

The next time some know-nothing tells you that there’s no such thing as rape culture (such as this former pro hockey player who’s somehow teaching junior players about consent or this podcast with an author of books with some good insights on how boys are being left behind), point them to this latest but of counter-evidence: a judge in Canada delayed the already-downgraded sentence (from sexual assault and forcible confinement down to common assault) of a hockey player so that it wouldn’t affect his internship at Deloitte or his future.

Chance Macdonald is student at Queen’s University, considered to be one of the “Canadian Ivy League” and also my alma mater (I often refer to it a “Crazy Go Nuts University”, a term of endearment from some oddball, fun, colorful academic career there). In Canada, if you’re going after a 6-plus-figure career, Queen’s is one of the schools you go to, especially for their School of Business. Chance also played Junior A hockey (similar to Tier II hockey in the U.S.), which for many aspiring players is only two steps away from their ultimate goal: playing in the NHL. Once again, in Canada, hockey players in school enjoy the same stature as football players in U.S. schools.

Justice Allan Letourneau is a Queen’s grad, and he was also a junior hockey player in his youth. It appears that his abiding loyalty to Queen’s and hockey overtook his obligation to justice when sentencing Chance.

Here’s what Vice reports:

Chance Macdonald, 22, pleaded guilty to common assault in April after he was initially charged with sexual assault and forcible confinement following a 2015 party. Crown attorney Gerard Laarhuis said Macdonald’s victim accepted the lesser plea in part because she didn’t want to face a trial and the possibility of being disbelieved in court.

According to the Kingston Whig-Standard, Macdonald, then a player on Gananoque Islanders Junior C hockey team, wasn’t sentenced until last week because his lawyer argued a criminal record would ruin his four-month internship, which he needed to continue on as a Queen’s business student. Despite the Crown’s protests that the victim deserved closure, Justice Allan Letourneau sided with the defence and waited until last week to hand down Macdonald’s sentence of 88 days of intermittent jail on weekends and two years of probation.

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He said the plea deal was “the right way to go in all respects.” He praised Macdonald on his excellence “in employment, in athletics, and in academics.” He noted, “I played extremely high-end hockey and I know the mob mentality that can exist in that atmosphere.” He told Macdonald he had significant confidence that “you will almost certainly never put yourself in this situation again,” describing the assault as a “fork in the road.”

On the flip side, most of Justice Letourneau’s warnings to Macdonald seemed to focus on how the business student may have ruined his future prospects.

“It all could have come crashing down on you,” he noted. Regarding the lesser assault plea, he said, “Good luck finding any meaningful employment with a sexual conviction on your record.”

If all this sounds familiar, it’s probably because you’re reminded of the case of Brock Turner, the weaselly judge who oversaw his case and who was more concerned about Turner’s future than that of the person he assaulted, and the horrible things Turner’s friends and family have said in his defense.

This is what we mean by rape culture: the fact that when a man, especially one from a well-off family, commits sexual assault on a woman, there’s a tendency — even in this modern day and age, when we should know better — to focus on how it will affect the man’s future than how it will affect the woman’s. And, in case I have to point it out, that is wrong.

To their credit, Deloitte Canada, where Chance had his internship, made this statement:

No statement has yet been issued by Queen’s University or its Smith School of Business. As an alumnus, I’m waiting…

Hey, Canadian businesspeople: You may want to check Chance’s LinkedIn page — Chance was very enterprising and has over 500 LinkedIn connections (a few people I know are connected via LinkedIn to him). You probably want dissolve that connection; if not for ethical reasons, at least for the pragmatic one of distancing yourself from this walking public relations nightmare. Here’s how you remove a LinkedIn connection.

Every Friday morning at 8:00 a.m., some of Tampa Bay’s most engaged citizens come to the main room in Oxford Exchange’s Commerce Club to attend Café con Tampa, a weekly gathering where guest speakers talk about issues that the Bay and the world beyond. It’s attended by an interesting audience that’s often a mix of movers and shakers from the worlds of arts, business, academia, and government, and put together by local heroes Del Acosta,President of the Historic Hyde Park Neighborhood Association, and Bill Carlson, President of the communications agency Tucker/Hall.

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Today’s speaker at Café con Tampa was Josh Frank, who has an interesting — and controversial — idea: turning Interstate 275 from a highway into a boulevard like San Francisco’s Embarcadero or Paris’ Champs-Élysées.

Here are my notes:

• I’m an area native, originally a St. Petersburger, now living in Ybor City
• So I understand the context of I-275, how people use and see it
• Spent a year working on the TBX project

TBX is short for Tampa Bay Express, a project that was so unpopular with the people that it’s since been changed and rebranded as Tampa Bay Next. Many people still call it TBX, especially since many believe that it’s just TBX, part two.

• Sat at tables with various people who would be affected, talking to them about what they liked and didn’t like about their neighborhood
• At the end of the process, I left feeling dissatisfied
• Spent next 6 months on my urban community thesis, which focused on people’s interest in community, walkability, safer streets
• That’s when I came to the conclusion that it’s feasible to turn the stretch of 275 from a highway into a boulevard at grade with transit
• It allows more cross streets, which you can’t have right now
• It makes the areas around 275 more walkable
• Right now, without cross streets, there are certain parts where it can take an hour to cross 275
• It opens the question “What if you had more transit and light rail?”

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• Of all the traffic on 275, only 35% is “regional” — people from Wesley Chapel and other areas outside the city
  • The other 65% is local
• DOT is studying alternatives, and replacing 275 with a boulevard is one of 7
• By 2019, they will conclude the study and start the decision-making
• I totally get the frustration of seeing this area flounder when it comes to choosing a solution
• DOT would have us study other cities, I would rather have other cities study us!
• We have the opportunity to be leaders in urban design
• We’re going to spend billions on TBX
• Think of this way: what can we do given those funds?
• I don’t want to see that money wasted on a project that at its end, “fills up”, and then requires another project to address its shortcomings
  • That’s what will happen to TBX

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• The boulevard would increase the economic potential of those areas around it
• It’s an opportunity to lift people out of depressed economic situations
• Take away the interstate, you get 37 acres of developable land
• In those areas around 275, the people who live there spend 33% of income spent on transport
  • Compare that with people in similar economic circumstances in Boston: they spend only 18% of their income on transport
  • Imagine what they could do with 15% of their income freed up

Q&A

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Did your studies include health-related data?

• Yes
• Studied fine air particulates and air quality around 275
• If you can’t walk from your house in Tampa Heights to a couple of blocks away in Ybor because of 275, you’ll walk significantly less — you’ll always opt for the car, even for traveling walkable distances

A page from the documents that Josh passed around. Click the photo to see it at full size.

Would there be an elevated expressway for fast-moving cars?

• In the boulevard design, there’s a median in the middle, which you can use for all sorts of things, including transit, or an elevated expressway
• Why not just have all the fast-moving traffic using 75?
  • It parallels 275, and is close enough to 75 that travel time between the two is negligible
  • There’s less environmental and property value impact
• My design tries to solve as many problems as possible
• Other uses for that median:
  • A large storm drain to help control flooding
  • Municipal fiber / Google fiber
  • It’s a big blank slate that’s ripe for creative ideas

The Embarcadero, San Francisco, before and after.

Where else have they done a conversion of a highway into a boulevard?

• The reality is that interstates are expensive to maintain, and people ask they’re the best way to move people around
• In San Francisco, the ’89 quake destroyed the Embarcadero expressway, and they used it as an opportunity to create a lively mixed-used city boulevard
• They also decided to do this in:
  • Rochester
  • Toronto (Gardiner Expressway)
  • Portland

You may want to check out Congress for the New Urbanism’s Highways to Boulevards pages, which cover highway-to-boulevard conversions in Boston, Chattanooga, Madrid, Milwaukee, Paris, Portland, San Francisco, Seoul, and Vancouver.

Tampas “Malfunction Junction”, the I-275/i-4 interchange.

With the boulevard, what happens to Malfunction Junction?

• With 275 turned into a boulevard, Malfunction Junction goes away
• You remove the knot, which removes the congestion and increases efficiency
• It also frees up a ton of land for neighborhoods to develop
• You don’t get 37 acres in a prime area opening up very often
• It’s an opportunity for us to think about the bigger picture

A page from the documents that Josh passed around. Click the photo to see it at full size.

What impact would a downtown baseball stadium have on your project?

• Any stadium that gets brought into downtown needs to be strongly transit-oriented
• Simply adding more roads will lead to what I call the “Fat guy, bigger pants” problem: the guy buys bigger pants while trying to lose weight, and never sheds pounds

Will the boulevard project be completed in my lifetime? I’m 59 now.

• I’m 28, I’d love to see it completed before I’m 40
• The problem is that here in Tampa Bay, we don’t work so well together
• There are so many organizations involved, and each wants a specific thing
• In San Francisco, a project like this would be done in 10 years
• In order to succeed, it would require so many agencies to work together on a scale that hasn’t been done before
• It would take:
  • One person with enough sway
  • Or one group with enough interest
  • Or a large enough group of people to agree to work together

A page from the documents that Josh passed around. Click the photo to see it at full size.

Is there an adequate amount of visionary leadership to support this?

• I wish there was
• Any urban solution takes a champion
• Some people would say Jeff Vinik is that champion, but he’s not a publicly elected person — he’s serving his commercial interest and those of his investors
• We wouldn’t have built 275 today the way we did 40 years ago

A page from the documents that Josh passed around.

Did you include hurricane evacuation routes? The 275 intersections at Nebraska, Florida, Busch are all failed intersections, and in a hurricane, the intersection at Waters would be submerged.

• Have not been able to cover all the angles in my plan
• Turning 275 into a boulevard would allow for managing those intersections, which you can’t do right now
• Evacuation isn’t always the solution, either: more people died as a result of the Hurricane Rita evacuation rather than from
• If you design the boulevard as an economic development engine, developers will want to come in and build their units around it, and not Wesley Chapel or South Hillsborough
• Bringing people into dense mixed-use developments is as important as hurricane evacuation

A driverless shuttle bus under consideration by HART (Hillsborough Area Regional Transit Authority). Click the photo to find out more.

What about the autonomous vehicle argument?

• Autonomous vehicles are brought up a lot in the planning profession
• I think autonomous vehicles have a purpose, especially for the “first mile” and “last mile”
• I don’t see Jeff Vinik building Channelside around autonomous vehicles
• Instead, he’s building around streetcars to aid in density
• I think autonomous vehicles are fascinating and have plenty to offer for future transport
• We don’t have to do autonomous vehicles all at once, but phased in
• We could have country’s first autonomous bus pilot program

A page from the documents that Josh passed around. Click the photo to see it at full size.

Why wasn’t transit included as part of the Crosstown Expressway plan?

• It was planned by a DOT of a different era
• The DOT is different today
• It takes a lot of time before transit gets implemented in a city
• As far as transit in concerned, Tampa’s in that “awkward teenager” phase, a growth phase
• We can either come out of it with a transit plan like that cities like Charlotte have, or we end up in car-centric gridlocks like Atlanta and LA

Minneapolis has same problem that we have: 2 cities, and many counties. Yet they managed to build an independent body to handle transit. Is there something like what they have brewing here?

• I haven’t heard of anything like that here
• Keep in mind that unlike Minneapolis/St. Paul, there’s a huge body of water separating our cities, so our situation’s not quite the same
• I’d love to have the ferry as a transit option
• In the end, our transit problem will require not just one, but a bunch of solutions
• “There is no silver bullet, but there is silver buckshot”

Other discussion

• FDOT is rolling out a variety of things, including a regional transit study next year
• There are local groups, like Citizens’ Acedemy, who are working on webinars explaining transit planning and its terminology to laypeople, so they know what city planners are talking about
• We have an opportunity: What other ways can we adopt a better conversation? How else do we engage in the conversation and engage citizens? How do we get people involved?
• I lament a lot about how there isn’t much citizen representation at these meetings
• There are great initiatives:
  • People uniting to ride the bus more often
  • There are a lot of community design session where you can give feedback on transportation and walkability
  • We have to start valuing this as business owners and entrepreneurs
• I could easily pack up and move to Denver or Portland, but I want to stay here

• If you’re building a building, consider how the building affects the public realm before the bottom line
• If you hire architects and engineers, consider best practices

Photo by Chris Vela, Sunshine Citizens.
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I-275 lowers property value

• The City of Tampa is funded primarily via property tax
• Lowered property values mean lowered tax revenues
• Any high capacity roadway lowers property values
  • A study of realtors’ outcomes and the effects of noise pollution showed that for ever decibel over 55 (about the same level of noise as in a restaurant or office), you lose $1800 off property value
  • The 275 corridor’s average noise level is 85db, which means 275 lowers property values by $54,000
  • That means that 11 miles of property is depressed
• At the same time, property values increase around transit stations
• The boulevard’s combination of noise reduction and transit could bring surrounding property up from depressed to market value to above market value
• Maybe that’s how you fund HART or extend the streetcar
• 275 is a massive anchor

More about Café con Tampa and Oxford Exchange

Café con Tampa takes place in the wonderful setting of Oxford Exchange,  a combination of restaurant, book store, gift shop, co-working space, design studio, event venue, and one of the best “third places” I’ve ever set foot in. Every Friday between 8 and 9 a.m., Café con Tampa features not only interesting guest speakers, but an interesting audience that’s often a mix of movers and shakers from the worlds of arts, business, academia, and government. If you want to have interesting conversations with some of the area’s movers, shakers, and idea-makers (and enjoy Oxford Exchange’s delicious breakfast spread), you should come to Café con Tampa.

My favorite seat at Café con Tampa: big, comfortable, and near a window with the view of University of Tampa’s Henry B. Plant Museum.

Café con Tampa speakers whom I’ve covered in this blog include:

• Yann Weymouth, architect and designer of the Salvador Dali Museum in St. Pete, and chief designer for I.M. Pei on the Grand Louvre Projectin Paris
• Michelle Royal, CEO and founder of RIDG(Royal Innovation Design Group) and creative consultant and idea-generator
• Peter Scorsch, political consultant, political journalist, and editor of SaintPetersblog and FloridaPolitics.com
• Rick Baker, former mayor of St. Petersburg and current St. Petersburg mayoral candidate

Sourcetoad — that’s where I work — has a number of small “huddle rooms” for smaller meetings or conference calls. I was on a conference call this afternoon in the purple huddle room (the company colors are purple and green), which I call the “purple passion pit”. I thought that the room called for me to update my desktop picture to something suitable.

The name — which isn’t used by anyone at Sourcetoad other than me, comes from the name of a reading room at the library at my alma mater, Crazy Go Nuts University.

Having switched back to going to an office after eight years of working remotely from home, I’m pretty pleased to be in interesting surroundings.

If you regularly peruse Twitter, you’ve likely seen a lot of memes based on this stock photo of a guy walking with his girlfriend, who’s appalled that he’s checking out another woman, and so blatantly to boot:

Here’s a popular one:

This one’s for the console gamers:

Here’s one that made the rounds a couple of weeks ago:

Of course, someone made some political ones:

My favorite observation about the women in the meme is about how similar they look:

The funniest thing about this meme is that both girls are essentially the same person

— Rafael (@RadSand) August 22, 2017

And finally, here’s my favorite improvement to the meme:

The scene at La Vita Bella Nursing Home, Dickerson, Texas, yesterday. They were rescued yesterday.

By now, you’ve probably heard the news reports and seen the photos coming from Houston, Texas in the wake of Hurricane Harvey, and you might be asking “What can I do to help?”. Here are some suggestions:

If you don’t live in the area, send money, not stuff.

Money has these advantages over stuff:

• You can send it instantly — there’s no transport time for money.
• There are no transport costs for money, either.
• It lets local assistance acquire the stuff they need.
• It lets aid group spend more time providing aid and less time managing incoming stuff.

Here’s a short (and most certainly incomplete) list of places where you can donate:

• Americares, who are delivering relief supplies and working with a clinic in Houston. They get full marks from Charity Navigator.
• All Hands is coordinating with emergency management officials about assisting in the response and recovery. They get full marks from Charity Navigator.
• Global Giving is an international organization that works with local charities and organizations when disasters strike. They get full marks from Charity Navigator.
• The Texas Diaper Bank is assembling relief kits for families with babies and small children who need clean diapers amidst the flooding and evacuations. As Texas Monthly puts it, “Diapers take up a lot of space in a delivery truck, which means that other relief organizations have to decide between bringing diapers or food to affected areas. The Texas Diaper Bank fills in that need.”
• Driscoll Children’s Hospital serves a large area, and people from many affected parts of the coast are likely to need their services.
• Portlight helps displaced residents with disabilities or who need special care.
• Direct Relief USA offers prescription drugs and other medical supplies to those who need it in emergency situations, and works with clinics and primary care doctors to ensure that people are able to get what they need when they need it.
• United Way of Greater Houston are also taking donations, and they’re focusing on providing food and shelter.

You’d do well to read ProPublica’s 5 Tips for Donating After Disasters, which reminds us that when giving money to aid in a disaster:

• Do your own research before giving to any group.
• Groups with strong local ties to their community can sometimes be the best option.
• You have a right to demand accountability of the groups you give to.

Also wroth reading: Vox’s Choosing where to donate to charity is tough. Here’s a simple guide to help.

If you live in the area, there are some additional ways to help

The Red Cross in Texas has asked people to volunteer. They’ll train volunteers at their shelters through a fasttrack course.

The Salvation Army is also accepting volunteers to hand out supplies and food at shelters. Check the National Voluntary Organizations Active in Disaster site to find out more.

You may also want to check out the “virtual volunteer reception center” that Volunteer Houston has set up online.

They’ll need blood. Carter BloodCare and the South Texas Blood and Tissue Center are accepting donations.

Food banks will need help. The Houston Press has compiled a list of food banks in the affected area, including Houston Food Bank, Galveston County Food Bank, Corpus Christi Food Bank, Southeast Texas Food Bank, and more. They recommend contacting a food bank directly about their need and what you can do.

Every blogger has a pile of unfinished articles that have been sitting in the “Drafts” folder for weeks, months, and even years, myself included. Here are a few pieces that I’ve started on the topic of good life advice I’ve found over the past five years, but didn’t finish — until now:

• Jason Shen’s 17 essential best practices for making things happen
• Oliver Emberton’s Life is a game. This is your strategy guide.
• The importance of “Hell yeah!” or “Fuck yeah!”
• The importance of showing up, by Emily Heist Moss

Enjoy!

Jason Shen’s 17 essential best practices for making things happen

Jason Shen’s aptly-named blog, The Art of Ass-Kicking, has an article that’s been on my “blog about this” list for far too long: 17 Essential Best Practices for Making Things Happen.

By “far too long”, I mean that the article dates back to December 2013, but his 17 best practices are timeless and worth following. The ones below are the most meaningful to me, but be sure to go to the article and read all of them:

• Keep the promises you make to yourself. I learned this one from Stephen Covey – we make little promises to ourselves all the time (“I’m going to stop working on weekends.” or “I’ll definitely get a workout in tonight.”) These promises are in fact more important to keep than the ones you make to your customers, your boss or your family. Because private victories come before public ones.
• If you’ve got a good idea, try to take some kind of action on it right away. Too often good ideas slip away, either due to momentum (it was exciting at the moment, but less so now) or just through forgetfulness. So when you have a good idea, send an email to a potential collaborator, sketch out some designs, or at the very least, make an Evernote note for the idea.
• Make every effort to understand someone else’s motivations for acting a certain way, especially if you disagree with it. Humans are notoriously bad at appreciating how another person thinks and feels. What’s the back story here? How might this person’s experience, position, skillset, social group, and value system cause them to act in this way. Many disagreements and corporate disfunction would be resolved if we all did this.
• If it is 80% done, and getting it to perfect is going to take a lot more effort, ship it, and fix it later. You’ll be surprised to find out how few things actually need to be “perfect”. This doesn’t give you an excuse to phone it in, but I’m a big believer in being prolific over being perfect.
• Find out what’s going to be on the test. Remember those annoying kids who used to ask if anything was going to be on the test? Well, they were on to something. Make sure you know what metrics, feelings or judgements will define your success, and concentrate your efforts there.
• There is something valuable to be learned from everything. Even with “worthless” tasks, be they boring, impossible, unrelated to your normal responsibilities or just plain tedious, you won’t waste your effort if you learn something from your actions. It might be a skill, an insight about people, or just a deeper understanding of how a system works. Writing and reflecting helps you appreciate and capture those learning.
• If you’re achieving 100% of your goals, you aren’t thinking big enough. Only by really pushing yourself will you discover what you’re truly made out of. Whether it is a workout, a deadline, a business deal or a romantic partner, you’ve got to go out on a limb and reach for more than you think you can get.
• When the right opportunity arises, seize it by the fucking throat. Once in awhile, a very special opportunity emerges – to travel somewhere, meet someone special, do something amazing. When you get that gut feeling that this is a big deal, do not hesitate to drop everything else you’re doing and pour all your energies into wringing that opportunity for everything it is worth.

Oliver Emberton’s Life is a game. This is your strategy guide.

If you like videogames and want to master the game of life, Oliver Emberton’s view of life through a gamer’s lens speaks your language. Here are the opening paragraphs…

You might not realise, but real life is a game of strategy. There are some fun mini-games – like dancing, driving, running, and sex – but the key to winning is simply managing your resources.

Most importantly, successful players put their time into the right things. Later in the game money comes into play, but your top priority should always be mastering where your time goes.

…and here are the closing ones:

All players die after about 29,000 days, or 80 years. If your stats and skills are good, you might last a little longer. There is no cheat code to extend this.

At the start of the game, you had no control over who you were or your environment. By the end of the game that becomes true again. Your past decisions drastically shape where you end up, and if you’re happy, healthy, fulfilled – or not – in your final days there’s far less you can do about it.

That’s why your strategy is important. Because by the time most of us have figured life out, we’ve used up too much of the best parts.

Now you’d best get playing.

Go read the article and catch the bits in between.

The importance of “Hell yeah!” or “Fuck yeah!”

Marrying Anitra in 2015. I said “I do”, but I meant “Fuck yeah!”.

These two articles espouse the same philosophy. Pick one — or hey, read both — based on your tastes and personal style:

• No “yes.” Either “HELL YEAH!” or “no.”: An article by entrepreneur Derek Sivers (founder of CD Baby, the web’s largest retailer of indie music) based around his simple rule: If you’re not saying “HELL YEAH!” about something, say “no”.
• Fuck Yes or No: Entertaining self-help guy Mark Manson takes Derek Sivers’ rule and applies it to relationships of all kinds:
  • When you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must inspire you to say “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them, and
  • when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must respond with a “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.

The importance of showing up, by Emily Heist Moss

“Friendships often start by accident, but they are maintained on purpose” goes the article’s subheading, and it’s right. Author Emily Heist Moss writes:

Maintaining friendships, much less forging new ones, is a question of choices. The choice to make the call, send the note, mark the calendar, reserve the time, follow-up, ask the questions, remember the answers. Over and over and over again. It is work, this friendship thing. For the ones down the mountain, I have to remind myself that it’s OK that sometimes I don’t want to log the hours. But for my top-of-the-mountain-people? Showing up when I don’t feel like it is when I put my friendship money where my mouth is.

So for the ride-or-dies, the 10x friends, show up even when you’re “busy,” because friendships often start by accident, but they are maintained on purpose. Show up even when you’re tired, because you know that your support—if only for a single drink, or an episode, or the first-half, or until you can’t keep your eyes open—is meaningful.

Show up even when it’s winter in Chicago.

If you’re going to pose for a picture with a celebrity, make sure you’re wearing the right thing:

And yes, I remember, and that dude had it coming: